This campaign began after a student bravely shared her experience of Honour Based Violence. She first recognised what she had been through during a university lecture. With the support of her course lead, she came forward, reported it, and the perpetrator was ultimately convicted. She asked for this campaign to exist - to raise awareness, to support others, and to show that you’re not alone. She has chosen to remain anonymous, but her voice is at the heart of this work. Below, you’ll find an extract from the student’s own words. The full version of her story is available online via the QR code.

There are moments in life that shape you - moments where silence isn’t just absence, but survival. For years, I carried the weight of things unsaid, believing that speaking out would dishonour my family, my culture, my community. But what about the dishonour of harm? What about the pain hidden behind “what will people say”? I am a survivor. And while the details of my experience are personal and private, what I will share is this: it was shaped not only by the actions of individuals, but by a culture of silence, shame, and control. These elements are the unspoken pillars of what is often called honour-based abuse. As someone with deep cultural and religious roots, I understand the beauty of community and faith. But I also understand how these can be twisted by those who seek to control. There is a fine line between guidance and coercion, between protection and imprisonment. To other survivors - especially those navigating similar cultural tensions—I see you. You are not alone. Your voice matters, even if it shakes. Healing is not linear, and reclaiming your story takes time. But you deserve to live without fear. You deserve joy, safety, and freedom. Sharing this blog is my quiet act of resistance. It is my way of breaking the cycle - gently, but firmly. And perhaps, in speaking out just a little, I will help someone else speak up a little louder. Let this be a reminder: honour lies in truth, not silence

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